Top 10 Reasons to Have Sex Tonight

When you're in the mood, it's a sure bet that the last thing on your mind is boosting your immune system or maintaining a healthy weight. Yet good sex offers those health benefits and more.

That's a surprise to many people, says Joy Davidson, PhD, a New York psychologist and sex therapist. "Of course, sex is everywhere in the media," she says. "But the idea that we are vital, sexual creatures is still looked at in some cases with disgust or in other cases a bit of embarrassment. So to really take a look at how our sexuality adds to our life and enhances our life and our health, both physical and psychological, is eye-opening for many people." Sex does a body good in a number of ways, according to Davidson and other experts. The benefits aren't just anecdotal or hearsay -- each of these 10 health benefits of sex is backed by scientific scrutiny.

Among the benefits of healthy loving in a relationship:

1. Sex Relieves Stress

A big health benefit of sex is lower blood pressure and overall stress reduction, according to researchers from Scotland who reported their findings in the journal Biological Psychology. They studied 24 women and 22 men who kept records of their sexual activity. Then the researchers subjected them to stressful situations -- such as speaking in public and doing verbal arithmetic -- and noted their blood pressure response to stress.

Those who had intercourse had better responses to stress than those who engaged in other sexual behaviors or abstained.

Another study published in the same journal found that frequent intercourse was associated with lower diastolic blood pressure in cohabiting participants. Yet other research found a link between partner hugs and lower blood pressure in women.

2. Sex Boosts Immunity

Good sexual health may mean better physical health. Having sex once or twice a week has been linked with higher levels of an antibody called immunoglobulin A or IgA, which can protect you from getting colds and other infections. Scientists at Wilkes University in Wilkes-Barre, PA, took samples of saliva, which contain IgA, from 112 college students who reported the frequency of sex they had.

Those in the "frequent" group -- once or twice a week -- had higher levels of IgA than those in the other three groups -- who reported being abstinent, having sex less than once a week, or having it very often, three or more times weekly.

3. Sex Burns Calories

Thirty minutes of sex burns 85 calories or more. It may not sound like much, but it adds up: 42 half-hour sessions will burn 3,570 calories, more than enough to lose a pound. Doubling up, you could drop that pound in 21 hour-long sessions. "Sex is a great mode of exercise," says Patti Britton, PhD, a Los Angeles sexologist and president of the American Association of Sexuality Educators and Therapists. It takes work, from both a physical and psychological perspective, to do it well, she says.

4. Sex Improves Cardiovascular Health

While some older folks may worry that the efforts expended during sex could cause a stroke, that's not so, according to researchers from England. In a study published in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health, scientists found frequency of sex was not associated with stroke in the 914 men they followed for 20 years.

And the heart health benefits of sex don't end there. The researchers also found that having sex twice or more a week reduced the risk of fatal heart attack by half for the men, compared with those who had sex less than once a month.

5. Sex Boosts Self-Esteem

Boosting self-esteem was one of 237 reasons people have sex, collected by University of Texas researchers and published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior.

That finding makes sense to Gina Ogden, PhD, a sex therapist and marriage and family therapist in Cambridge, Mass., although she finds that those who already have self-esteem say they sometimes have sex to feel even better. "One of the reasons people say they have sex is to feel good about themselves," she tells WebMD. "Great sex begins with self-esteem, and it raises it. If the sex is loving, connected, and what you want, it raises it."

6. Sex Improves Intimacy

Having sex and orgasms increases levels of the hormone oxytocin, the so-called love hormone, which helps us bond and build trust. Researchers from the University of Pittsburgh and the University of North Carolina evaluated 59 premenopausal women before and after warm contact with their husbands and partners ending with hugs. Tey found that the more contact, the higher the oxytocin levels.

"Oxytocin allows us to feel the urge to nurture and to bond," Britton says. Higher oxytocin has also been linked with a feeling of generosity. So if you're feeling suddenly more generous toward your partner than usual, credit the love hormone.

7. Sex Reduces Pain

As the hormone oxytocin surges, endorphins increase, and pain declines. So if your headache, arthritis pain, or PMS symptoms seem to improve after sex, you can thank those higher oxytocin levels.

In a study published in the Bulletin of Experimental Biology and Medicine, 48 volunteers who inhaled oxytocin vapor and then had their fingers pricked lowered their pain threshold by more than half.

8. Sex Reduces Prostate Cancer Risk

Frequent ejaculations, especially in 20-something men, may reduce the risk of prostate cancer later in life, Australian researchers reported in the British Journal of Urology International. When they followed men diagnosed with prostate cancer and those without, they found no association of prostate cancer with the number of sexual partners as the men reached their 30s, 40s, and 50s. But they found men who had five or more ejaculations weekly while in their 20s reduced their risk of getting prostate cancer later by a third.

Another study, reported in the Journal of the American Medical Association, found that frequent ejaculations, 21 or more a month, were linked to lower prostate cancer risk in older men, as well, compared with less frequent ejaculations of four to seven monthly.

9. Sex Strengthens Pelvic Floor Muscles

For women, doing a few pelvic floor muscle exercises known as Kegels during sex offers a couple of benefits. You will enjoy more pleasure, and you'll also strengthen the area and help to minimize the risk of incontinence later in life. To do a basic Kegel exercise, tighten the muscles of your pelvic floor, as if you're trying to stop the flow of urine. Count to three, then release.

10. Sex Helps You Sleep Better

The oxytocin released during orgasm also promotes sleep, according to research. And getting enough sleep has been linked with a host of other good things, such as maintaining a healthy weight and blood pressure. Something to think about, especially if you've been wondering why your guy can be active one minute and snoring the next.

The Most Common Sex Wrecking Medications

1. Drugs That Wreck Erections
Anti-depressants, common pain pills, blood pressure meds, statins, prostate and urinary medications are some of the worst offenders.1 Up to 60% of people taking anti-depressants will have bad sexual side effects.

Do you pop ibuprofen or other pain pills like candy? One study estimated that nearly one out of 5 cases of limp erections could be due to Advil, Motrin IB, Aleve or aspirin.2 Stop this habit and get to the bottom of your pain. Natural stress reducers can take care of headaches – and natural anti-inflammatories may take care of joint pain.

Some types of blood pressure meds are the worst. Diuretics and beta-blockers have a bad record. Ask your doctor about switching to ACE inhibitors, alpha-blockers, calcium channel blockers or ARBs.3 They aren’t so hard on your sex life.

There are also many natural solutions to blood pressure problems. The University of California, Davis, found that grape seed extract lowered blood pressure in human volunteers.

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5 Culprits That Tank Testosterone

1. Unhealthy chemicals like weed killers, bug killers, plastics, and some medications can increase the female hormone estradiol and lower your testosterone. Get rid of the Round-Up, use boric acid powder bug killer and never microwave plastic.

2. The stress chemical cortisol can sabotage your hormones and your sex life. The higher your cortisol, the lower your testosterone. Men who are stressed often express it by being grumpy and angry. If you find yourself in a bad mood a lot of the time, suspect that your testosterone could be too low.

3. A beer belly is connected to low testosterone. It’s a vicious cycle. The fatter your belly, the lower your testosterone. The lower your testosterone, the more you gain weight around your belly. If you have a fat belly and can’t lose weight, you could have low testosterone.

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CNN Senior Medical Correspondent says people who have more sex live longer, have healthier hearts, lower rates of prostate and breast cancers, less migraine and low back pain, slimmer bodies, higher testosterone levels, fewer heart attacks, lower blood pressure, healthier sperm and women have fewer menopause symptoms as well.

The director of sexual medicine at a hospital in San Diego, California, says,

“Sexual activity is a very important thing to do. Human beings were really meant to do this.”

And one more thing, solo sex doesn’t count as much towards good health as couple sex.

1 Cohen E. January 7, 2010. New Year’s Resolution: Have more sex.

5 Most Common Sex Malfunctions

The experts used to believe that physical malfunctions like erectile failure or vaginal dryness were caused by emotional or relationship problems. Wrong. Most sexual malfunctions are purely physical. And here’s the good news – they can be fixed!

Sexual malfunctions are pretty common. The latest scientific evidence reveals that one third of men and up to half of American women regularly have to overcome some kind of physical sex problem.1

1. Ejaculation.
This is the most common sexual problem for men. Ejaculation problems affect up to 40% of men.

2. Erection.
This is the second most common problem for men. One in six men over the age of 20 has erection difficulties.

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Statin study: Lower cholesterol, diminished joy of sex linked


“In the study, sexual pleasure sank along with LDL levels, says study leader Beatrice Golomb of the University of California-San Diego School of Medicine.

Patients who took simvastatin, or Zocor, had the biggest LDL drop, but men rated their sexual pleasure as sinking by nearly half over the study period. Women were somewhat better off, “but some definitely were affected,” Golomb says. Pravastatin, or Pravachol, the other statin tested, reduced LDL less and didn’t have a significant effect on orgasms.”

3 Natural Ways to Fire UP Your Testosterone

1. Have more sex.1

2. Eat foods that boost testosterone: white mushrooms, red meat, garlic, nuts, and wild salmon.2

3. Take a dietary supplement with at least 25 – 50 mg daily dose of DHEA.

The Mayo Clinic web site says that DHEA supplements may improve well-being, quality of life, exercise capacity, sex drive and hormone levels in people with low adrenal function. DHEA may also help overcome depression and reduce fat, especially belly fat.3

A 2004 Italian study found that supplementing with 25 mg/day of DHEA significantly increased levels of DHEA, DHEAS, total and free testosterone, and androstenedione plus other hormones.4

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